THUGS VS. GENTLEMAN??

This is for all the ladies out there. As Men we find it hard to read or even understand the Woman species. So I’m hoping to get some clarification behind a certain myth. Many guys out there have this prenotion that women are more so attracted to the “thug” or “bad guy” image than a respectable gentleman. Many times I have been forced to deal with this and have even questioned my whole “nice guy” image. What is it about thugs that interest you ladies?

                Thugs give off this bad guy, been to prison, kind of tainted image and yet ladies are attracted to this! I just don’t understand what the big draw is all about. Is it the fact that you never know if he cares or is even being faithful, is it the fact that he smells like the streets, is it his deboir attire, or is it that you like the challenge of trying to tame such a beast? I really find this concept hard to understand.

                Many women would argue that a good man is hard to find. Some would even say that men are all the same. That statement may have some truth to it. All men have the potential to be the same but we all choose different paths. Good men are not hard to find, I can name at least five in my inner circle. It’s not true that all the good men are taken either ladies. We are here on our grind. Grind meaning going to school, working towards a career, setting goals for our future. So where are you looking?

                Let us analyze the places women find men. The clubs- trust me ladies most men you find in these places are looking for one thing. That guy who tries to spit game in the mall- although he may be worth the try, if it appears he is spitting game than maybe that’s all he’s spitting. All I’m saying is ladies hit up the book store, give that guy in your class a chance, these are the men who will love you.

                Now I’m not saying I know the best places to find a “good guy” but ladies you have to be picky when choosing a man. If it seems you can only find thugs, change your location, sit down and think about the qualities you admire in a man. There are Good men out there! Yes, we may be a little sensitive, we may even cry every now and then, but I can promise you one thing when it comes to loving a woman, WE DO IT BEST!!!